Hi Jeff,
Some of what I learned from all this is.
1, At times and from certain distances Viridiglaucescens shoots look a lot like vivax shoots.
2, At different stages and exposures Viridiglaucescens culms can easily be confused with Henon and dulcis.
3, Vivax shoots don't have oral seta or auricles. And like dulcis Vivax has crinkled culm sheath leaf blades.
4, Dulcis has auricles and oral seta.
5,Viridiglaucescens has relatively big auricles and oral seta that can be colorful.
6,Viridiglaucescens sheath blades can be colorful (purple, blue, purplish green) in shade. And the sheath blades can be crinkled a little early but relax to long graceful curves fairly fast.
7, Always take a camera when going to get a new bamboo.
I hope I got all that correct?
One thing I failed to look at or photograph was the underside of the leaves. Whitaker says they are "faintly hairy and are markedly blue-green on the underside". If you go there would you check that? Are you thinking about trying to get a proper division from her now that we know what it is? I saw some near the street that probably would be small enough to be manageable, if they don't destroy them. Depending on how mine recovers from the freeze I may like to have another piece.
David, your list shows Viridiglaucescens in the ground. Are you still interested in a division?
Not knowing what this one was has bothered me for 2 years, I really appreciate the help.

Matt